I LOVE USHER TO THE MOON AND BACK, AND I REALLY LOVE HIS NEW ALBUM, BUT HE NEEDS TO TAKE A LESSON FROM JAY DON'T TALK ABOUT YOUR RELATIONSHIP AND THE CRITICS WILL EVENTUALLY RUN OUT OF FUEL, SECONDLY HE CLAIMS THIS ALBUM IS ABOUT GROWING UP, YET THE FIRST SINGLE IS ABOUT HAVING SEX IN A CLUB. SORRY, THOSE TWO DON'T MATCH. HOW IS THAT RESPECTING YOUR WOMAN? I DON'T WANNA GET ALL PREACHY BUT COME ON USH... BUT LIKE I SAID I LOVE HIM TO THE MOON AND BACK, AND ALWAYS WILL.

WOW... TWO OUTBURSTS!!!! HE WAS ON FIRE!!!!! VERY GHETTO BUT U GOTTA LOVE THE REALNESS!!!!!

WTF, she ain't 40? That bitch must be 50 than. Haha

P.S. She looks like a man

killem ush

lol..this wasnt that bad..whats wrong with that?

Damien (the white guy) completely lost control hahahahaha..... let usher speak his mind i guess, whatever... i mean don't we all hate rumors? good for him.

dayum usher.

first, i don't interpret those comments as "outbursts." usher was setting the record straight and he was on point with what he said about doing the right thing and marrying his woman. this nonsense about his choice of a wife is child's talk. usher's a grown man now and he's acting like it.

i am so glad that usher clearring things up his wife is not 40 so so must be in her 30.she is older then usher she not 20 maybe in her 30 that it. he loved his mom to. keeep up usher. grown men is finnley talking andmaking sence.

I'm glad he did what he did b/c after a while the rumors do get tiring and he was to the point where he could not take it anymore. People will probably still tlk though. I'm not going to lie, I love Ush and I think he could do wayyyyy better, but if he's happ, then I guess I am too.

usher's a thorough azz nigga.

he's representin' for all the brothersz and just REAL MEN in general that know how to love a woman and know about bein' grown and don't gotta worry bout hatersz talkin' bout dat "boo lovin" shit... usher's real as fuck and i dont see no problem with this video and this a dude talkin!

It really wasn't an angry outburst or something, it was just him havin some fun plus standin up for his family, nothin but respect for that.

fall back usher...ppl stopped tlkin bout u and ure transexual wife ages ago...no one cares anymore... jus stick to the music

Ok, Usher isn't your friend people so i wish some of ya'll would stop talking like you got a wedding invite! Now, usher wasn't paying the media any attention all this time until he went on the 2bit TRL t get his point across even though he'd been on countless talk shows and done interview before this but he decided to preach to a bunch of screaming girls. Publicity stunt is ever i saw one.

usher, you still married a tranny.

it did kinda come outta nowhere and i agree with the person that said he decided to choose trl to let that little outburst come out when he has been on numerous interviews and could of did it any of those times....especially when those rumors were fresh....as far as i'm concerned noone is thinking about him and his hubby.....but i guess it has came up a little more lately because of his album coming out and her having to be there everywhere he goes...but yeah ush get over it cuz,it might hurt a little but what dont kill you only makes you stronger,bitches talk about bey all the damn time and vis versa wit jay but you dont never hear SHIT coming out of their mouths and thats why they've lasted this long,they keep their personal lives just that PERSONAL so get over it and deal with what you got yourself into...in the mean time promote the damn cd and stop talking that bullshit....i swear he annoys me with that nonchalant attitude.

oh and LMMFAO @ comment #3

Usher made hisself look stupid, nobody said nothing about Tameka on TRL, his dumb as basically said he married her cause they had a child, well newsflash Usher u think u did the right thing by marrying her, but the problem is u got her pregnant when she was married to another man, so no u didn't do the right thing, u did something stupid and I think that's why your fans are so mad, because u r her third baby daddy asshole. Your fans are just trying to look out for u, so stop calling them haters, because u didn't even want to marry her.

LOL I TOTALLY AGREE WITH THE LAST COMMENTATOR. USHER WAS MESSING WITH THAT CHICK WHEN HE WAS WITH CHILLI AND WHEN TAMECKA WAS MARRIED...SO WHAT GOES AROUND COMES AROUND. AND HE DOESNT HAVE TO EXPLAIN HIMSELF BECAUSE NO MATTER WHAT HE SAYS AND HOW MUCH HE TAKES UP FOR MANECKA...HIS FANS ALONG WITH OTHER INDIVIDUALS ARE GOING TO BELIEVE WHAT THEY WANT. WHEN YOUR OWN "MAMA" DOESNT SHOW UP AT YOUR WEDDING, SOMETHING IS REALLY WRONG. BUT HEY THEY SAY THAT WHEN HE FALLS FOR A WOMAN, HE FALLS HARD. SHE GOT HIM WHEN HE WAS VUNERABLE, PUT IT ON HIM AND NOW SHE HAS A CHILD WITH HIM-CAN U SAY "CHING CHING"?

OMG!!!.... He is so damn gay. That shyt was SOOO gay. Flamin!!! Who really gives two shyts about him or that man he calla his wife. We don't care. That is in the top ten of the gayest putbursts I have ever witnessed. Sit yo azz down Ursher

Usher needs to go sit his butt down somewhere. His such a BIG FOOL. There is no smoke without any fire!

usher is a media whore. he thrives off of the attention he gets from his personal life. that is the main reason why his confessions cd did so well.

it's no coincidence that he had this outburst the day of his release. he knows exactly what he is doing. i wouldn't put it past him if his camp was the one who put out the rumor of him splitting with temeka.

he is an attention seeker. he did not need to address the rumors surrounding his relationship. once you let the media into your personal life they will tear you to shreads. like so many other celebs his relentless hunger for publicity will be the downfall of him. some of you guys on here can be so niave its actually quite funny.

look at beyonce and j. they keep what they have so private, they dont address any of the rumors and have managed to keep things in tack. TAKE NOTE URSH!

I honestly don't considered that "flipping out". sometimes I think people see what they want to see. He was laughing and smiling the entire time he was on trl. He just addressed all the rumors (yall know they were gonna ask him anyway, so he just went ahead and did it himself) in a joking around kind of way. everybody seemed to be having a good time.

Where did Usher "flip out?" I do not consider a man speaking up for his wife or his mother flipping out. Stand up for yours Usher!!

Where did Usher "flip out?" I do not consider a man speaking up for his wife or his mother flipping out. Stand up for yours Usher!!

Where did Usher "flip out?" I do not consider a man speaking up for his wife or his mother flipping out. Stand up for yours Usher!!

Where did Usher "flip out?" I do not consider a man speaking up for his wife or his mother flipping out. Stand up for yours Usher!!

Where did Usher "flip out?" I do not consider a man speaking up for his wife or his mother flipping out. Stand up for yours Usher!!

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Respect to Usher for that!!

I could care less about who he marries and how old she is. I'm definitely not feeling his music like I used to...I don't think anyone is...the people who say they like his album probably would've bought it regardless anyway. I was just talking to some people saying how Chris Brown's music is sounding way better than Usher's right now in my opinion. Then I damn sure wasn't gonna buy the album with him already talking about a rerelease....

if usher keep saying that everything is a lie then why does he always feel like he has to defend the relationship the more he talks the more the media makes of it
keep your personal life private and ignore them
i dont think people should be bashing tameka
yeah she says some dumb stuff to the public
but usher chose to cheat with her and then leave their partners and get together
if he says his happy so be it
i think everyone is surprised by the choices that he has made in the past year getting married , firing his mom,. threatening to close down his website, talking back to the media and doing his own thing
i think he really is trying to grow up but i hope the choices that he made was not only for tameka and his kid
but also for himself
its good to put the ones we love first but make sure we are in it and doing the things that we do because we want to
do it for yourself first

no offense to usher but how is saying that you made the choice to be by your family
the same thing as saying you love that person
and what kind of love breaks up relationships and causes you to bash everyone you love
its a selfish and ignorant love non the less
people are blaming tameka
lets face it she saw usher running to her for advice and sleeping with her
wouldnt you get knocked up and marry usher
why miss your first husband when you can have a second one
who's much younger and has lots of money
everytime he speaks he has to mention his wife
give me a break man
make decisions for yourself and not cause your wife tells you too
and he claims his mom was sheltering him
from gold diggers like tameka i bet
parents and children will always disagree but aint no way im leaving my family for no man
unless you are sure his worth it
even then you cant leave your family
doesnt he feel stupid that his mom plays no part in his famil

tameka probably talking in his ears
and its driving him crazy
lets face it only chilli
can bring the kind of lyrics that were deep and sincere
on confessions back into usher's soul
lots of times these celebrities stay in those relationships just to try and prove the fans and media wrong
im sorry but my happiness comes first
theres nothing wrong with wanting to change your lifestyle
but be mindful of your decisions

IF YOU ARE CHEATING WITH A MARRIED WOMEN
WHY NOT USE PROTECTION???????????

MARRYING SOMEBODY B/C THEY GOT KNOCKED UP IS NOT LOVE
NOR IS IT DOING THE RIGHT THING
USHER NEEDS TO STOP TRYING TO MAKE THINGS BETTER
IF HE CLAIMS HE IS HAPPY AND HE MADE THE RIGHT DECISION THEN
LET IT BE
FOCUS ON YOUR MUSIC
AND STOP GOING TO THOSE CRAZY PARTIES AND ONLY SEE THE MEDIA WHEN YOU HAVE TO
BUT KNOW THAT THEY ARE EVERYWHERE

uummm.....pulease! It's not that serious. ok so he's loves her. Well, I hope so since he married her. Dang who is he trying to convince us or himself???

Plzzz Ursh, nobody gives 2 craps about ur damn marriage, stepkids, etc. The way he carried on he acted as if the TRUTH hurts.
When he gets done he will turn around and ask the "fans" to support his azz and buy his music to support that ready-made family. Screw that, dwnload and let him figure out what happened to the "fans" and the money!

HE IS SUCH A PUNK ASS, HE COULD OF BEEN SPOKE TO THE MEDIA MOONS AGO WHY NOW, OH REGARDLESS OF THE BITCHASSNESS THE ALBUM IS STILL HOT SIZZLING GARBAGE.........

about f££$£$ing time he said something...she is a human being and deserves to be treated like one...there should be a certain level of respect these people are given and that is that....they have feelings and reserve the right to be upset....i think he shud flip if he wants too..if someone did that to someone i loved I would flip... and there you have it...so instead of foolishly telling him to sit somewhere,....u shud encourage him...he has a point and many dead beat black men should pay attention..nuff said

Thank You Usher for standing with and by your wife through thick and thin. That's what a husband is suppose to do. God bless you and your family.

Lord! Another TRL Breakdown! Frist MiMi, now Ursher! Who's next? Kelly Rowland???

LET IT GO USHER,BEFORE YOUR CD FLOP.REMEMBER YOU NEED US! (PAY ATTENTION)AT FIRST YOU RAN FROM TAMANKA (LOL) I THINK YOUR ANGRY BECAUSE YOU MISSED THE CHANCE TO MARRY YOUR TRUE LOVE CHILLI

Listen to me carefully, Usher. I am 65 years old and know a little something about a man not stepping up to responsibility. You married this woman because you felt that you were being a man because of a "baby". But what about all the pain and emotional anquish you caused when there was no baby in the mix. You haven't grown up yet, wait until you see the REAL errors of your life and pay the pain caused by you. Then let's see how mature you will be in restoration of a broken heart.

SO HE GOT MARRIED TO A WOMAN WITH KIDS ALREADY. THE LADIES R REALLY UPSET ABOUT THAT. THE LADIES FANS ACT LIKE THAT HE WAS GOING TO MARRY THEM

I love Usher too but he is a fool. In other words " I love her , I married that 39 yr old (not 40!) just cause I got her preggers! That is the way its done, do the right thing!" You can still support your child financially and emotionally without marrying the mother. He fell in love with her after he married her. Lol.

FIRST OF ALL, USHER IS A YOUNG MAN. HE HAS A CARREER THAT HE IS DEDICATED TO. HE IS WHO HE IS AND SHE SHOULD HAVE KNOWN THAT SHE COULD NOT COME ALONG AND CHANGE THAT.I BELIEVE HE MARRIED HER BECAUSE OF THE CHILD. USHER IS A LADYS'MAN. THERE ARE WOMEN FAR PRETTYIER THAN HER WHO HAVE NEVER HAD CHILDREN WHO WOULD GIVE AN ARM AND A LEG JUST TO BE IN HIS COMPANY. HE MADE IT KNOW IN HIS PASS THAT HE HAD A PROBLEM WITH WOMEN AND SEX. HIS WIFE IS JUST ANOTHER WOMAN NOT HUDINI AND EVEN HE WAS LIMITED. THERE IS GOING TO ARISE A REAL STINK FROM THIS WITH A LOT OF SMOKE BEHIND IT. HE IS TOO YOUNG FOR HER AND SHE IS TOO OLD FOR HIM.I WENT THAT PATH.NOT SAYING IT COUDN'T WORK. IT COULD BUT BOTH PARTIES HAVE TO WORK AT IT AND I DON'T THINK HE IS THERE YET. HE IS A GOOD PERFORMER BUT HE IS STILL WET BEHIND THE EARS. HE SHOULD HAVE PROTECTED HIMSELF, WAITED TIL HE WAS READY FOR MARRIGE AND FOUND A BEAUTIFUL WOMAN WITH NO CHILDREN AND STARTED A FAMILY. WHEN WOMEN HAVE BABIES BY DIFFERENT MEN, IT IS THE CHILDREN WHO SUFFER MORE ESPECIALLY WHEN IT IS NOT A MATCH MADE IN HEAVEN.I ADMIRE HIS TALENT
AND WISH HIM WELL AND THE YOUNG LADY.BY THE WAY DID SHE EVER STOP TO THINK OF WHAT WOULD HAPPEN TEN YEARS OR MORE DOWN THE ROAD WHEN HE IS STILL WANTING AND SHE IS NOT? BELIEVE ME THE TIME WILL COME BUT THERE IS ALWAYS HOPE.

I don't understand the hype! What did he say that was so wrong. Wether he married her because she was pregnant or not, he says he loves her. He loved her enough to get her pregnant why not love her enough to marry her. About him getting upset about all the negative comments about his wife, anyone who loves someone don't want to here negative things about their love ones. If someone say something negative about your MAMA, what would be your response, the same with his wife. And for the record their has been a lot of negativity about his wife, I just yesterday heard on a Ricky Smiley PodCast how they refered to her as a beastman, well I did find that offensive, because she is a Black Woman. These same so call blacks who get so upset about being called a nigger, and getting treated right by whites are the same people who says and thinks the same about themselvesl, so why expect the white people to feel any different, You are black, and if YOU don't have anything positive to say about yourself, why get mad when someone who isn't Black don't. These same no good misguided, lost identity people, are the same who says they don't like black women because of (weight, bossiness, uneducated, weave, and so on) but turn around and marry a White uneducated, trailer trash, Fat, False bodyparts (same as weave) golddigging white woman, basically contradicting themselves, so basically they only married her BECAUSE she was White, thinking that would set themselves off from the other blacks. There is a joke I heard. What do you call a educated black physician? A Nigger. Just like the words in Soldier Story, "They still hate you"

Usher and his poor pitiful self. When one makes a mistake own up to it and move on. If he is really happy with the decision he made then what everyone else thinks shouldn't matter; but if he is having second, third or fourth thoughts and what people where warning him about are coming true then the real sign of being "grown up" is you correct the issue. Sad to say but sometimes just because you have a baby together does not mean you need to be together. Children add a whole other twist to a relationship and it maybe one that does not work for some people. Once again his poor pitiful self.

I clearly think Usher, should just shut his trap and use it for singing.....plus i think he should find a way to have a wife & mother...at the same time.

First of all Tamika dont look as bad as every1 is sayN she just dont look like the women we thought he should be with. We r use 2him dating models and who can forget Chili from TLC. Second of all a real man would have neva let they gal talk them into fireN their own mother! Tamika got the game and ran wit it, she got pregnant!!! Her and her babies r set 4life! Third, I luv that beat on Luv N da Club, but who n da hell has been dropN it like its hot on da dance floor and turn around 2 the nearest man/chic and say make LUV 2Me? He could've came better then that,DAMN Usher! Im expecting N da near future the lowest sales wit this record, a divorce, a long drawn out custody/child support case, his mama catch a case for smackN da hell out of Tamika and she will b dating another star,haveN another baby, Usher come back hard on the music tip and dating another model.

Usher,claims he is a real man now, then act like no then be one. A real man whether he is black, white, blue or green doesn't care what someone says about him or his because the truth is between him and God and thats the only person he should worry about. Be like Will Smith and Jada keep your business to yourself let the world think what they want because regardless of what you say their going to do it any way. Its all about selling magazines and papers.

usher has his life to live, we all are making remarks about him or his realationship should look back in our closet and figure it out badmouthing doesn't stop him from making his money not him, but the products he gives, lets stop putting our artists down after bringing them up, Americans in General, we are fund of disregarding our musicians outside the world, compared to Europe and other countries they raise banners, not distroy it let us leave them with their lives and face their music.

Usher obviously made the decision that he felt was best for him. He married a womwn who looks much older than he is.. but that was his decision. If they are in love, that's actually all that matters. I do hope that one day he will reconcile with his mother. It must have been very painful for her.

What a big mess to work out
Mothers & their children should always love one another but these days you just dont see enough LOVE Its good that Usher loves his family Too many people hate it is so sad and they are unhappy peoples

There was nothing wrong with what Usher said. He is absolutely correct. It's time for men to step up and take responsibility for their actions and that's just what he did.

Maybe somewhere behind the locked doors of the couple some bad fires are getting bigger. Besides, if he got her pregnant while she was still married to someone else; he should probably look into getting a DNA test. Don’t blame the public; he put his business out there. I still love his music.

I DON'T THINK USHER'S PUTTING HIS BIZ OUT THERE. I TRULY BELIEVE HE'S FED UP WITH THE MEDIA TALKING SMACK ABOUT HIM, HIS WIFE AND THEIR RELATIONSHIP, ESPECIALLY THAT OF AN UNTRUE NATURE. WE ALL HAVE TO REMEMBER THAT JUST BECAUSE THEY HAVE MONEY, THEY'RE STILL JUST AS HUMAN AS WE ARE. AND I KIND OF RESPECT HIM MORE NOW AS A MAN JUST BECAUSE OF HIS OUTBURST. THE MEDIA SHOULD INDEEED STOP REPORTING THINGS THAT HAVE NO MERIT AND/OR VALID PROOF JUST TO SELL PAPERS OR BOOST RATINGS. ATLEAST NOW WHEN THEY REPORT HIS TRL TAKE OVER IT'LL BE ACTUAL AND FACTUAL,BUTTHEY'LLSTILLFIND A WAY TO TWIST AND TURN THE TRUTH.

What's wrong with you guys? That was not bad at all. He is obviously tired of the rumors. If it makes him feet better getting this mess off his chest then there is nothing wrong with that. If if were you, you would probably do the same. Good for you usher for setting the record straight to all the haters.

Okay, I just watched this and people are making a big deal out of nothing. I didn't really see anything he did that was worth talking about it. The crowd was cheering and joked about how he was taking over the show What's the big deal? But of course this is the internet another story blown out of proportion I was getting ready to see Usher snapping out or something.

you know what, only true haters (90% of yall) talk about someone's name and drag it through the dirt like yall are doing usher's. as a man, growing up SHOUL BE inevitable. but a lot of black folk (and others too) want to stay irresponsible forever. Usher chose to change for the better, to settle down. even if he did marry tameka because she was pregnant, that's how you should do it, at least for that child's sake. he's trying to provide that child with a enviroment, that usher himself didn't have. and you all want to throw him and his wife (i know that make you groupie fans mad, yall just didnt want to see that man married to nobody but yall. lol)under the bus and dog them out. and exactly what has he done to yall? Nothing, but hate on haters, im proud of Usher, more men, or at least these poor excuses for men, need to follow suit and do what's best for your seed, it's called love and sacrifice. besides, who are yall to call tameka ugly and looks like a man. hey, if she has usher's back, and is there for him through it all (and that what truly matters, not looks, you a-holes)then i hope that are proceed in a blissful union forever. quit hating on the man, and do something with your lives other than hating, you haters.....out

let that man live and be true the game like he has always did.

HOW WOULD YOU LIKE IT IF EVERY TIME YOU WIPED YOUR *SS SOMEBODY HAD SOMETHING TO SAY ABOUT THE WAY YOU DID IT AND HOW IT SHOULD HAVE BEEN DONE? PEOPLE FORGET THAT CELEBRITIES ARE HUMAN AND HAVE FEELINGS JUST LIKE THE REST OF US. PLUS THEY HAVE TO WORRY ABOUT THE WHOLE WORLD TRYING TO INTERPRET WHAT THEY SAY. LET THE MAN ALONE! HE SAYS HE LOVES THE WOMAN, LET IT GO. WHO CARES IF SHE ALREADY HAD KIDS? JUST BECAUSE YOU HAVE KIDS DOESN'T MEAN YOU HAVE TO BE OFF THE MARKET. HE WOULDN'T BE A MAN IF HE DIDN'T DEFEND HIS WIFE AND MOTHER. AND NOBODY IS PERFECT SO I CAN'T STAND ALL THESE PEOPLE TRYING TO PASS JUDGEMENT. ONLY GOD CAN JUDGE. HE HANDLED THE SITUATION VERY WELL AND SMILED THE WHOLE TIME, AND IT DOESN'T MATTER IF HE WAS ON TRL. PEOPLE JUST NEED TO FALL BACK...

I really admired Usher for the commit that he made in defending his wife. Very seldom do you find a black man these days that would have stood up defending his wife like that. All i been hearing lately is about how many black families are being split and how black men are going elsewhere for relationships outside of his race, and are not happy with their black women,thank God their are some black men who really appreciate his black women and who are willing to stand beside and defend their woman. I think Usher did a very brave thing he showed other men, that he would not let any outside influence make them turn him against his wife no matter what they are saying are what they think. He is not going to desert the one that has been by his side when he needed her, because of what the public are anyone else is saying, He us honoring his marriage vows and i deeply respect him for that. Usher i say continue to keep outside influences out of your marriage because they will truely destroy what you have it you don"t continue to protect it.

I think Usher"s wife is a very attractive young women, my God people talk has if she is 60 or 70 years old, i thought that they were about the same age. and looks along ain"t eveything if you look good then good the devil is beautiful. Usher did mention some mistakes that he had made in the pass let"s give him credit for that, that was a good start for him, he did not blame anyone for what he did in the pass, he was not like most men blaming the women, are something that she had done for the break in his relationship he said that he was sorry for what he had done, I can tell that he has had positive influences in is life people like Shirley Cesear, i am glad Usher do not have tatooes are markings over his body i always considered him as being clean cut looking.

I would like to say the reason why i made the comment is that beauty is not everything is when others are being put down because they do not look as good are as beautiful as somebody else are being compared with someone else beacause they do not look as attractive. i am not against beauty i have some of the most beautiful and attractive people that you have lad your eyes on in my on family but that does not mean that everybody who is beautiful is true, beacause there is some handsome and beautiful people that is a known fact can be very hateful, and very devilish, and arrogrant. and can be some of the worst thing in a pair of pants and dress.

I don't see it a an outburst. He is just like any other person who gets tired of people yacking at the mouth and he wanted to set the record straight. A person can only take so much, you know...being human and all.

About a comment that i had made earlier i decided to remain anonymous because i would like to be heard for what i have to say and not to be pre-judge because of who i am. when i made the commit about beauty is not everything, i am not hating on anyone else beauty, why i made that commit is from reading all lot of comments on this blog what others are saying about Ushers wife saying that she is not pretty enough for him are he should had married someone much more attractive, when did just looks count what about the person character what if he had married someone for just looks and in turn he caught pure hell from her, would just looks matter then i do not see anything wrong with the way his wife looks i think she is rather attractive, because she do not look like the way others want her to look does that disqualify her, persoally i am very passionate about the black family if you are black single and free i think that you can date who ever you want you can date outside your race i don"t care if they are yellow green blue that is your business, but my passion is about black married families who are being split asunder, people just do not respect the married vows nor oth